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Posted October 09, 2013 - 07:01 PM

I know the feeling, as many of us do. Keep your wife close for the next few days, she may not say it but she will want the company... Even if she acts like she doesn't want you around. Make sure she knows you love her.

One thing that helped a little with my wife was a date nite with a babysitter.

Took a couple of weeks for her, but she came around fine.
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Posted October 09, 2013 - 07:48 PM

Sorry to hear but I am glad you have the right look on life to work things through. I can't say anything much better then these guys already have.


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Posted October 09, 2013 - 08:22 PM

I know the feeling, as many of us do. Keep your wife close for the next few days, she may not say it but she will want the company... Even if she acts like she doesn't want you around. Make sure she knows you love her.
One thing that helped a little with my wife was a date nite with a babysitter.
Took a couple of weeks for her, but she came around fine.

 

Been a rough evening. I got home from work late. I was almost grateful when the water valve on the sink started leaking badly and I had to spend about an hour fixing it.

 

Sorry to hear but I am glad you have the right look on life to work things through. I can't say anything much better then these guys already have.


I have to try to stay positive or id go crazy. Life has kicked me around more than I can type here
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Posted October 09, 2013 - 09:47 PM

Rough evening. I hear you, understand, and feel for you all. There will be a few of those. It will calm down...

Many of us have gone thru something like this. Nothing I say will make the situation easier except to know others have been here.
Spend a little extra time with your daughter to help keep it all in perspective, she knows something is up too I bet and will love the Dad time even more.

I agree there must've been something amiss or else this wouldn't have happened.
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Posted October 10, 2013 - 06:47 PM

So sorry for your loss. Those clotting disorders are scary. I nearly lost my wife due to clots. She has a clotting disorder that flared up after having our son. When the ER doc said cross our fingers and hope for the best, I about lost it. Thankfully she was able to pull through.


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Posted October 10, 2013 - 07:07 PM

That's scary shorty...I'd be lost without my wife. She can be difficult and indecisive but she's my best friend
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Posted October 10, 2013 - 07:13 PM

That's scary shorty...I'd be lost without my wife. She can be difficult and indecisive but she's my best friend

I think that describes a lot of wives. Difficult and indecisive, but my best friend and would be lost without her. It sure gave a lot of sleepless nights. 


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Posted October 10, 2013 - 07:51 PM

I have a few 4 and 5 letter words to describe my ex wife and none of them nice. Lol

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Posted October 10, 2013 - 08:03 PM

I've never been through this, but I sure know it has to be tough.  Praying things get better sooner than later.  The clotting disorder is rampant in my family, coming from my Mom's side of the family.  My oldest sister & one of my favorite cousins have had very close calls due to it.  



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Posted October 10, 2013 - 09:34 PM

Not much more could be said....some awesome advice guys. We were married four years before we had our first daughter now 37 our second daughter now 30 & our miracle son 19. They all were very hard to have but have been a blessing. One thing I could mention which might be hard is to not try again for awhile. You both take some time with each other & time will heal. God bless.
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