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#1 BairleaFarm OFFLINE  

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Posted May 30, 2013 - 07:44 PM

My fiance of 2 years and I kind of broke up last night and this morning. Came home and everything that was hers is gone. Guess it's for real. I figured it was over recently but just sucks knowing its a reality.

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Posted May 30, 2013 - 07:53 PM

Sorry to hear that David, but better now than later.  Been there before, so I know how bad it sucks.



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Posted May 30, 2013 - 08:03 PM

Sorry to hear about the breakup.
Time may heal wounds, but that doesn't make the process hurt less.

I have been married for over 15 years, but had some bad breakups before that.
I thought we were going to have one the last time I bought a tractor.
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Posted May 30, 2013 - 08:18 PM

It was always how quiet the house was that got to me.  Keep as busy as you can David!  


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Posted May 30, 2013 - 08:21 PM

Sorry for your loss david! My have my sympathy and my prayers. Time will heal but in the mean time keep things straight with yourself and don't let things bring you down.



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Posted May 30, 2013 - 08:21 PM

Sorry to hear this. Although it is a lot better to find put now that 8 years and 3 kids later.


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Posted May 30, 2013 - 09:16 PM

Sorry to here the news David! I have lost count how many times I have been there. Like Daniel said just try and stay busy! I know it may seem hard right now, but trust me it will get better and the pain will pass!

 

Just hang in there and if you need to talk we are here.



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Posted May 30, 2013 - 09:32 PM

I guess it just wasn't meant to be pal..

 

She didn't take your brother with her did she???? :hitting_self_roller:

 

It's not the end of the world and try to keep it in perspective..  

 

Things will improve..  If it is meant to be she will be back..  If you love something, set it free..

 

If it comes back then it was meant to be..

 

Hang in there pal..  (Buy a tractor!!) :beerchug:



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Posted May 30, 2013 - 09:36 PM

I feel your pain also. I'm at the end of an extremely nasty divorce that has been drug out for 2.5 years and my 3 kids 9,7,5 have had the worst of it. Staying busy and venting frustrations rather than bottling them up seems to help me the most. We're here to listen if it helps.

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Posted May 30, 2013 - 10:20 PM

Thanks guys.

I was married for 10 years a few years ago. Cost me 3 years and 20k. The whole situation just sucks.

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Posted May 30, 2013 - 11:01 PM

My nephew has had bad luck with the ladies as well..  He got married and a year later his wife came 'outta the closet' and left him for another chick..  What a slap to your manhood huh?  He got over that and hooked up with another girl a few years later who seemed to be a great one..  They were together for a while and then planned to get married..  During the wedding planning she showed signs of being a bride-zilla so the wedding came & went then 3 months later she left him for another man and over his head in debt..  He dug out from that mess in a few years and is now dating another lady with a couple little ones and so far things are going good for him..  They bought a house and we'll see if he takes the plunge the 3rd time..  I'll bet he is careful this time..  I'm hoping it works for him..  

 

Not knowing your situation and it's none of our business just keep your head straight and don't do anything you will regret later on.. Lean on your friends and family and talk things through with them..  You aren't alone you know..


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Posted May 31, 2013 - 01:17 AM

That's real good advise, better to do nothing than something you'll regret later. Too much drama can really screw things up when they're already bad enough. Vent here all you like, we'll listen. :angel: 


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Posted May 31, 2013 - 07:30 AM

Sorry to hear that.  Sounds like a good time to buy a consolation tractor.


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Posted May 31, 2013 - 08:09 AM

Sorry to hear that.  Sounds like a good time to buy a consolation tractor.

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Posted May 31, 2013 - 08:19 AM

Just try and forget about it. Keep busy and move on. We are always here for you. Jim makes a good point. Time for a consolation tractor.






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