Pull up a chair, top off your coffee cup and listen to my story. So as anything in life there will always be ups and downs, I seem to have big ones and then I bounce back from them better than ever. I start back in 2007 when I was engaged for the first time to a girl in Virginia. I was accepted to change careers in the Air Force after 10 years of searving to fly helicopters, so I took the oppritunity. I moved to New Mexico for a long amount of training, and we decided that I will go and do my training and then move her when ever I get my assigned duty station. After a while it seemed harder to contact her. She basically gave up and couldnt do the long distant thing and desided to keep the almost $4K ring I bought her. She told me in an email to forget about the ring. Well I decided to file a law suit. During the lawsuit I was getting stressed out and I ended up blowing my rt knee out for the 3rd time working out in the gym. So because of the lawsuit and blowing my knee out I was pulled from Blackhawk flight training until things settled and healed. Well both things took along time, after winning the lawsuit and having another surgery, I was told that I could re-enter flight training, but not on the blackhawk, they gave me the Huey helicopter and orders to Minot. I had nothing against Minot and glad to go. Well needless to say I had an old female friend get in touch with me via the internet. I first met her over in Okinawa japan back in 98'. I had a thing for her but she was seeing somone else at the time so I played the friend thing.
Well we decided to meet just for the hell of it, found out she had a thing for me back then and still did, I told her how I felt so we gave it a go back in 2008'. I moved her to Minot with me in late 2009 when she was still in school finishing her degree. I had bought a house out in a rural neighborhood, in the valley by the country club and golf course. Summer of 2011 we had a massive flood that took over 5000 homes in the minot area, to include our house. we lived in a friends 20ft camper with no bathroom since he didnt winterize the water system and blew the tanks. so we had the camper parked behind my work with a living space of 15x8ft for 6 months before getting a fema trailer. the city and state drug there feet on what to do and or they were talking about buy outs to redo the river. we were led on the line saying we would be bought out and not to rebuild our house. we stayed in the fema trailer until april 2012 since we decided to step forward and get another place while the state figures stuff out. we bought our DREAM house and property in April 2012 and never got the buy out from the state until Oct 2012 on the flooded house, so we paid 2 large mortgages for a while. So fast forward,we got married Feb2012, June 2012 we started talking, we have our dream house and property, things are going our way, our schooling is done we are at that point in time. we start talking about having a baby. So we tried and tried, we read books and researched the internet and still no prego. WTF, so I go to the Urologist Dec 2012 and start running tests, find out I do have an isue and they start wanting to push a surgery that is not garrentied to fix the issue but thats what they are wanting to do, I dont feel comfortable by the way they are pushing. In the mean time my wife is freaking out because she is about to turn 35 so she sees a OBGYN, Jan 2013. We talk to her DR. and he tells me dont do the surgery, he looks at the numbers and says that yes I have an issue but not like how they made it out. He decided to step forward and have my wife do a non-surgery proceedure to help her chances called an HGC Feb2013. We had our 1 year annerversay Feb 2013, then I had my birthday, and then it happened. The day I thought would never happen. The morning of 25 Feb 2013, I am involved in a violent helicopter crash in the middle of no where north dakota, I sustained a back injury and was banged up, I was transported an hour away to the hospital via ambulance strapped to a back board. I had injuries with massive back pain and headaches, Ive just been a mess, a few days later was my wifes birthday. March 1 she came home and was asking if I remember her telling me about a dream she had the other day. Now keep in mind Im drugged up laid up on the couch, I wipe my drool up and said no. She hands me a stick with a +. So it looks as if we will be having our first Baby long over due, starting in our mid 30s.
So keep in mind when ever you have a rough time or somthing bad happen to you on a big scale, just remember, somthing good will come from it.
From the crash http://www.kxnet.com...eking-witnesses
